Reproach the purity of souls and the admonition to love as much as, say people have dealt with, but the admonition not be the only effective method if used in a timely manner and with the right person to accept a gentle admonition open mind,
In the statement of Umar ibn al-Khattab - may Allah be pleased with him - says do not cut off your brother on suspicion, not abandon without Astatab so as not to lose your friends Atapk of them, here are six tips in this regard
:: Select Atapk:
There must be more than Atapk to a certain extent, in your words turned to a kind of rebuke, and not duplicate what you say does not insist too much, so as not to turn your words to the type of attack is granulated
While that should not be more than Atapk to a certain extent, it is necessary also that does not detract from the point that makes it effective, Valthaon sometimes lead to a growing tide of it before your friend, and then indulges in non-observance of any concerns
:: Do not point the direct accusation:
It should not be put into a friend of the accused, Vtdtrh to defend itself in a way looks like a bakacad discharge the charge from the uncertain, it Jgr vest your direction, and may lose part or in whole
:: Put points on the characters::
When your friend Tatb select precisely the things that Zaiguetk ment, in the sense to put points on the characters, with an emphasis Atapk when you persist in friendship, and what Atapk only a matter of staying on the old friendliness.
:: Be polite:
Do not use the words never beyond literature, Alvazk and choose carefully, so as not to embarrass
Your friend does not forget your back
:: Stay calm::
Atrf to your voice, and spoke calmly and without emotion
Remember, you do not quarreled Tatb
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