I am a married woman and I live with my husband and I'm comfortable with them and thank God, but I always in a downward spiral with myself because I fear punishment .. Praise God my husband and I think he also is committed to commend to God no one but his brothers, all of them smoked and some of them do not pray and pray some in the house sometimes and their father the same thing most of the time to pray at home with that increase is not excused on the images are everywhere .. Maids are not Muslim to mention the drug and the singing and hazing and shower set in September this year, There is no power but God does not tell me Mrém and Onhiam I am a woman who are men. My husband unfortunately does not say they only arrived that he saw before him and only left them I was very scared of this, but What if I asked for an independent house Vservd my husband because he does not want to die he was the only nation where the bar. What make evil prevails because good and psychologically I am worried for all days. Enlighten me what to do, and May Allah reward you.
A: thank you, O sister, jealous of the sanctity of God and ask God to make us steadfast in adhering to the truth, I see that there are three issues that require the statement to lift something from the embarrassment that you feel throughout the day.
The first question we must know that the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice is the duty of men and women alike, each according to his ability and he can. God said, describing the believers: (And the believers men and women, some of them parents enjoin right forbid evil) Repentance, verse 17, saying peace be upon him: "Whoever among you sees an evil let him change it .." Modern, and "from" general terms of which it enters beneath every Muslim man and woman; and therefore you say, "Do not tell me I Onhiam Mrém and woman who are men" is not correct, have been calculated many of the advances on the women and men Back Back ] And I advise you to read the book: the responsibility of women in the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice in the light of the texts and the conduct of good works, my God, Dr. Fadl [ .
And the second issue, relating to mattresses to denounce evil, God Almighty by His grace and bounty did not cost a Muslim but what is within the limits of strength and ability; therefore said peace be upon him: "Whoever among you sees an evil let him change it with his hand, it could not then with, if he can not feeling it is wrong "to talk; and so you and your spouse if Tsttaa denial hand fell obligatory Ankma and go to that place, followed by a denial of the tongue .. Thus, the rank denial heart is obligatory on every Muslim, under any circumstances.
The third question: is that a Muslim once did his duty in the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice was acquitted of sin does not harm him astray of lost after that says: (O you who believe, you yourselves do not care of your lost if the (right) guidance), and blessings of Allaah be upon him him "that he used you princes Vtarafon and deny it is hatred of the innocent, and denied that it has been recognized, but pleased with" The hadeeth was narrated by Muslim, Imam al-Nawawi may God have mercy on him: this means the hatred in his heart could not deny, however, no tongue has cleared of sin and led his job, It is denied by his energy has been recognized from this sin and may Pfolhm Tabahm and it is the sinner.
Therefore, you should cooperate with your husband in good and ordered them to forbid them to do evil as possible, and I advise you to try to convince the frequentative husband housing in order to preserve their independence both of you and your children from evil, according to what Allah loves and everyone is pleased with.
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