The scientific analysis of the nature of men and women of the destinations of physical and psychological lead us to an important result which is that marriage is not accidental, there is in the circumstances of a particular social, changing and fading if the changed circumstances, but is inherent in human nature and the essential element necessary to complete human life.
And marriage at its core and basis is the acceptance of both men and women to live together until death in the light of Islam and morality means that the meaning of marriage requires inevitably the meaning of survival, permanence and stability, but the important thing is not to achieve permanence and stability in a foreign material in spite of internal strife and tension married life, but What is important is that the stability and permanence on the basis of
Harmony and to strengthen the association of physical and moral at the same time, which makes the husband and wife and a coherent corporate parties, and can summarize all the conditions which ensure the survival and development of this unit in a single word (to meet).
The successful marriage happy is not a legend but is in expanded human nature to achieve the condition that we understand the essence of this nature and the convenience of social systems, provided that we work with every sincerity to create conditions for the development of all the possibilities of Rights and the maintenance of social systems to ensure the development of this potential to the maximum, There is no doubt that the marriage system is subject to the limitations of a particular social and that the association between the husband and wife must acquire the status of legitimacy, has taken the marriage in the history of the different forms under the influence of some factors, economic or religious is that there is stable and inherent in marriage, in all civilizations, ancient and modern, a permanence and stability The league marital Association of sustained not interrupted except death, and this quality inherent in human nature and also applies to sexuality Man tends to achieve a still image of a stable sexual relationship and this is achieved in a permanent marriage stable, then you should mention that the heart of marriage is not love alone, but is more than love in the depth and comprehensiveness, The world of love closed world while the marriage is heading out towards a world of activity and production Vmkhmh wife to mediate between her husband and between the outside world, to increase its capacity and efficiency, Frdaha and appreciation of the activity of her husband in his career of the most important reasons success in the struggle daily and this sort of meeting between the couple.
In order to fully understand the nature of the meeting on which the pure ideal of marriage is worth standing a little when the nature of marriage in terms of psychology and to discover their core called after we review the most important elements as they appear to us through our mental health.
There is no doubt that the ideal of marriage requires the presence of two essential elements: sex appeal first and then love. However, the perfect marriage can not be based on sex appeal alone because they are subject to change and disappearing like all things sensual and must be, because supported by a passion of love, even love alone is not enough to establish a perfect marriage because it is also prone to volatility and extinction, but for a coup to him, especially when taking a picture Alolua and love , Love, who were not integrated in the married life does not derive from the reasons for growth to stay is an adventure surrender her rights without the awareness of and sometimes without knowing it was never how they evolve and the time of end, In Love, where is the rush of emotional side instinctively reflex and this may become the developments of a sudden lead him to chill and disappearing or turning into a tragedy the love in the light of married life, it acquires a new spirit because marriage is the task of serious based on much of the thinking-oriented and determined voluntary and therefore do not blame ourselves if betrayed by love, but failures in marriage, leaving us always a sense that we have sinned The disservice to act. But in spite of that love is not the basis of marriage and substance, but his role is essential in all stages of married life With love discovers human is worthy of that shared in his life, because the emotion of love and a means of knowledge may exceed the accuracy and influence and the means of knowledge of mental Pure , thanks to the love comes in married life in bright colors in the air Vica familial spirit of hope and optimism and become a daily burden easier and less burdensome, and in spite of its evolution over the years still love the duo is a source of comfort and happiness.
However, the essence of marriage is not sexual attraction and love itself, but as we achieve this deep desire in humans to be with the second part, which is complemented, and for this reason remains Association strong between the couple after the senses calmed Vsaadthma is to be with each other to sit with him , to live with him, that shared all the circumstances of life in good times and bad.
It is believed that some young people the key to marital happiness similarity between the total marriages in terms of tastes, ideas and emotional attitudes, each one of the couple wants to find the other in a true to himself and that the Union between breaths must be based on complete response between the two. The request for such a response fully involves the deception seriously and should lead to frustration, a Union is in the purpose does not necessarily mean the union union full of emotions and opinions and responses to sensory and emotional, the urgency shown by a couple in that other Hbhebh all similar is not due to the power of love and perfection, but to his weakness and decreasing it is evidence of the immaturity of love, as if the person is unable to love someone other than himself, and extravagance in love with the person of the same form of love as felt by the child, and such a situation leads to the obstruction adjustment sexual to start married life as the role played by the husband or wife is the role of poster child.
If it is to be a modern couple to consider each and every one of them to the other that he faced a living being and personal, and not actually the point of citizenship is not seen as purely from the point of perfect and purely spiritual Wegerdh of sensitivity and sexual orientation. This is not a purely spiritual approach to the proof of the respect and appreciation, but is motivated by fear, but sometimes the frustration of patients.
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